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What's the use of apologizing about your behavior without changing your behavior? Some people apologize to people they have wronged to make the other person "feel better". They have no intention to change the behavior in which they are apologizing for. In my (unsolicited) opinion, an apology without action is worse than no apology at all. Keep your apology if you have put no action forth in changing your behavior.
I was recently recommended to watch an episode of "Braxton Family Values" where a lot of crying, admitting of fault and apologizing happened among the family members. It's great to have a "break through" and the first step to fixing a problem is to admitting it. YET, if those who apologized do NOT change their behaviors going forward then all they have done is apologized. If they continue with the same action after the apology then the apology can't be accepted. I think instead of instantly accepting ones apology, you should be given a window of time to see whether true change takes place.
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