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So, I recently had a conversation with a loved one who told me that I would be a better person if I learned how to not hold grudges against people that have wronged me. I informed my love one that I do not hold grudges, I just remember. I remember what a person has said and done and I make sure I do not put myself in the position to allow that to be said or done to me again.
That is not a grudge - it's more like self-protection. I have never been able to understand how people forgive and forget so fast. They continue to be mistreated and fall victim to the same person(s), time and time again. I most definitely can and will forgive those that apologize for their wrongdoings AND I never forget what s/he is capable of doing again. You can fool me once - but the second time I am just the fool. I do not play the role of Fool very well, so I simply remember. The definitions for both terms as defined by Dictionary.com are below. grudge noun
verb
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