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The best love I have ever experienced from a human being is SELF-LOVE. Once you get to know yourself (likes, dislikes; wants vs. needs; desires) and truly appreciate who you are, you will love yourself more than ANY human being can ever love you. Once you love your self, you will not tolerate people or things who/that cause you pain, discomfort or harm. Self-love helps you to eliminate "self-pity" and self-hate. When you love yourself, you will NOT allow negative energy into your space.
I found self-love through a spiritual cleansing. During that time, I did not allow anything harmful inside of my body and my mind. I decided to immediately change negative thoughts into positive thoughts. I focused on what I could do, instead of what I could not do. I reflected on things I had accomplished, whether than the things I did not accomplish. I decided what things I did not like about myself that I wanted to change and I took action to change. I also accepted those things about myself that I was unwilling or unable to change. I went through this process alone. I did not ask/challenge others to take on this experience with me. In the beginning, it was very challenging but as time went on, the process became easier. I did not stop and start over, because let's face it, you will never complete anything by doing that. If I failed one day at something, I did not throw out the entire day, I focused on those things I did accomplish and I would add one more day. What started as a 10 day fast, ended up being a spiritual cleansing that lasted 13 months. My goals changed throughout the process and I allowed some things back into my life. Only those things that did not bring negative energy. Once I came out on the "other side", I was filled with so much self-love, that people wondered WHO was in my life to make me happy. I would happily answer "ME! I truly love me". After that, it was much easier to ensure that I only kept people around me (in my personal circle) who love me. I do not have time to be guessing and figuring things out with family nor friends, if I have to question your love for me - I will happily dismiss you from my life without hesitation. I LOVE ME waaaay to much!!!!
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