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With the rise of social media, the ability to communicate with people in mass emerged. Now when someone completes a goal, accomplishes something, or has a hardship – they can update their friends, family, and other followers via one post. And all of those followers have the ability to like, comment and share the post with others on their friends’ list. At times, there are those who praise you for your accomplishments, while some may even criticize or question your accomplishments. I’ve noticed that most people tend to focus on the critiques and questions more than they do the praises. They tend to feed into the negative responses, more than the positive ones. They will then react to the negativity by bringing more attention to it – via a new post or comment. They may even go live to verbally address the negativity. All while saying, they are “unbothered.” Which couldn’t be further from the truth. The fact that they acknowledge and responded is proof that they are indeed bothered. Instead of focusing on the positive feedback and being uplifted by it – they will allow negative feedback to infiltrate their energy and mind. They can receive 100s of praises, with only one negative response. They will still concentrate and be BOTHERED by that one.
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