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I think one of the biggest problems in (some) relationships is when one or both of the mates compare their relationship to other couple's relationships. What works for them, may not work for YOU! I see statuses and references to other couples with the hashtag #relationshipgoals. Hell, NO couple's relationship is my goal. Not Bey and Jay; not Kim and Ye, not Will and Jada, not Michelle and Barack and definitely not Ike and Tina. My point is, I know what I want and need as a person. It took me a while to truly understand that. I had to first discover who I was and what I am willing to put into a relationship. I am not about compromising myself or trying to CONVINCE my mate to compromise for me. I am not about, changing someone to be the mate I want or need them to be. I don't hide who I am and I acknowledge my flaws and my "works in progress". Here's my unsolicited advice: Get to know you first. Your needs, your wants and what you are willing to put into a relationship. Stop conforming to every mate you meet - just to make it work. The first sign of "the same ole' shit" - RUN! You really do have options. They may be limited, but it should be that way. Everyone is NOT meant to be your lifelong mate. Every mate is not your husband/wife. The image in this post is from: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/habits-of-happy-couples
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